Friday, September 5, 2008;
6:55 AM
FRIENDS:BESTFRIENDS:CLOSEFRIENDS:TRUEFRIENDS:FRIENDSFORLIFEwhat does that mean to you ,do you even know the meaning ?
no you
probably dont cause almost all the people you
meet randomly belongs to any category
you dont pick your friends , you're friends with anyone you meet on the streets !
add them up on myspace or friendster or any social network
and you're friends with them instantly.
but what happens when you really need them ,
when you're sad, happy or angry ?
will they be there for you ?
do they care whats on your mind ?
do they know when you're tears are coming even before it flows out?
are they there for you ?
thats what i have been thinking .
and the truth is , a normal person has an average of at least 1-4 friends
who we can really ,truely trust and count on to be there for you.
most of the people i meet are strangers to me the next day
i dont even talk to them ,
my classmates(primary and secondary)? most of them are fair-weathered friends
they just talk to you when they are bored,
or if they need you to be their bitch for a moment
or in some cases their permanent bitch.
some are too ashamed to even go out with you
just because you're not popular,smart,pretty,thin or rich !
true friends dont get jealous of you ,
they dont force you to do anything,
they dont give you difficult choices to choose
they dont ditch or diss you for popular cooler people
they dont stab you in the back
they dont tell your secrets to anyone
they dont suddenly cancel plans you made with them ,
just so that they can go out with other people.
they stick with you when everybody else turn away from you .
they dont push you around ! if they do then fuck them !
this holiday i have been thinking,
and now i know who my truely bestest friends
and who are the fair weathered ones .
as we grow up we dont lose friends,
we just learn who our real ones are.
i surrender
